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πŸ’–πŸ† "SUCCESS" πŸ₯‡πŸ€—πŸ’–

✝️πŸ€”πŸ€¦πŸ»‍♀️ Recently, it has occurred to me that, I am more AFRAID of "SUCCESS" (in the "worldly" sense - whatever that really means??), than, I am of "FAILURE!!" 😏 Why, you might ask?!  I do not have a clear cut answer.  Maybe, it's because I've experienced failure more than I have SUCCESS, therefore, it is, familiar and comfortable, to me?!  I just don't completely understand why! πŸ˜—πŸ˜ Don't get me wrong - I have a VERY strong desire to be SUCCESSFUL!! Maybe, the fear of it is partly due to the fact that, I know myself (especially, the old part of me that, is the old nature/flesh) so well, that, I fear - of WHAT I am capable - given too much - money, fame, notoriety, etc. (any kind of big success)?! 🀷🏻‍♀️ I also, know that, "the world, the flesh, and the devil," offer a multitude of "opportunities," with which, one has the possibility to achieve "SUCCESS," in which, I am no longer interested, after various...

✋🏼✋πŸΌπŸš— 'HANDS OFF THE STEERING WHEEL!' πŸ˜³πŸš—πŸ™πŸΌ

πŸš—πŸš˜ A long, long time ago, I let "JESUS take the wheel," of my life! πŸ™‚πŸ™πŸΌ✝️πŸ’œ Many times since then, I have been tempted to grab it, have actually tried to grab it, have grabbed it, and thus, have scared, hurt, embarrassed, etc., myself and others! 😏 HE was/is in the "driver's seat" of the "car of my life," and, has been since that day, of which, I write!  Therefore, anytime I have tried to "help" HIM steer, I have NOT helped HIM, but, have caused fender benders, wrecks, ETC.!! 😩 Whenever, I try to take back the "steering wheel" of my life, I am not applying Scriptures, such as - Proverbs 3:5+6 (and many others), to my journey! πŸ“– Instead, this type of behavior is based in FEAR, not FAITH! 😏 Thank God, by HIS bountiful GRACE, I have never PUSHED wonderful JESUS, the perfect "driver," completely out of the "driver's seat" of my "car of life," which, would have been (and, would be)...CATASTROPHI...

'ISOLATION VS. SOCIALIZING'

πŸ’–...on SOLITUDE...and, SOLITARY living... πŸ‘©πŸ» Being ALONE has a POWER that very few people can handle! - Steven Aitchison πŸ“πŸ˜ Anymore, I love being alone - probably "to a fault," but, I have NOT always loved it to such an extreme degree! πŸ€” It's a good thing that, I don't mind it, because, I'm here, all by myself, at home - A LOT! πŸ™‚ However, I can honestly write that, I very seldom "feel" lonely. ☺️ "LONELINESS is FAILED SOLITUDE" - Sherry Turkle πŸ’– And, I am very thankful that, I don't! πŸ™ŒπŸΌ I have always enjoyed alone time, but, whenever, I was younger, I was much more social than I am presently. πŸ˜• I greatly cherish the tranquility, peace, quietness, etc., in which, I "sense," whenever, I am in my home - alone (not entirely accurate - because, The Good Lord is always with me). 🏑 It seems to me that, there is not a "one size fits all" amount of alone time! πŸ€” Each individual has his/her own preference as to the am...

πŸ’– 'PERSEVERE - MY DEAR!' πŸ™‹πŸ»

πŸ’™⚾️ "IT'S HARD TO BEAT A PERSON WHO NEVER GIVES UP!" - Babe Ruth ⚾️πŸ’™ As a result of - BEING - fifty five years YOUNG (ha!), married - thirty five and half years (long yrs. - just kidding!πŸ€£πŸ˜‰πŸ™πŸΌ), and, being a preacher's wife - thirty two years, "you can bet on" the certainty that - I have had to - as the following statement (T-U - post from 'FB') says:  "Sometimes, you just have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and TRY again!" The picture with it, shows a horse that, is shaking off a bunch of dust. πŸ΄πŸ’ž However, it seems as though, I find myself doing this - much too often, and, this frustrates me! 😩 Nevertheless, something (to God's credit) in me, will not LET me be totally defeated, and/or, to quit! πŸ™ŒπŸΌ We all should "take heed," whenever, we are discouraged, and tempted to "GIVE UP, to these powerful words - spoken by the late-great, Dr. Maya Angelou:  "You may encounter many defeats, but, you must NO...

πŸ‘―‍♂️ 'FRIENDSHIP FRENZY' πŸ’–

πŸ’–πŸ‘―‍♂️ "A man (person) that hath FRIENDS must shew himself (or herself) FRIENDLY:  and there IS a FRIEND that sticketh closer than a brother" (Proverbs 18:24)! πŸ“–πŸ•ŠπŸ™πŸΌ✝️πŸ’œ First of all, JESUS is the, "GOAT" (greatest of ALL time), and/or, FRIEND, who, sticks closer to HIS FRIENDS (each of us), than any person! πŸ™ŒπŸΌ✝️πŸ’œ Let me say that, sometimes, I succeed, and sometimes, I fail, at being a GOOD FRIEND, and/or, even just being friendly! πŸ˜πŸ™πŸΌ My intentions are usually to be, a good friend and/or friendly, but, there are times, whenever, various "things" hinder me from "living up" to my intentions! πŸ˜” Am I the only one who oftentimes "feels" like a failure in this, and, other areas, of life?!  Too many times I "fall short" of, mine and other people's, EXPECTATIONS (perceived and/or real)! πŸ˜©πŸ™πŸΌ Based on this Scripture, UNFRIENDLY people probably aren't going to have very many FRIENDS!  This thought caused me to thin...

'Pay Attention Or Pay the Price!'

✝️πŸ€“ "IF, you FOCUS on the hurt, you will continue to suffer!  IF, you FOCUS on the LESSON, you WILL continue to GROW!" (thank you - a 'Pinterest' quote!) ❤️πŸŽ―πŸ˜‰ The most significant LIFE LESSON, up to this point, in which, I am desperately trying to permanently LEARN, I believe, and, I'll write, would have to be, what I've, observed and experienced, by - applying, and, not applying, the following "suggestive Truth," which, is written in, Shakespeare's 'Hamlet,' which states,..."TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE!" πŸŽ­πŸ’†πŸ»πŸ€”πŸ’– Because, I have, experienced and hopefully learned that, in the past, whenever, I have made decisions to please other people (I realize upon reflection), and/or, for other reasons (thereby deceived), as a result, I, eventually, feel - sad, powerless, frustrated, angry at myself, and the such! 😫😏 Nevertheless, thankfully, I am always comforted by the fact that, God's providential plan - has, is, and shall conti...

πŸ˜— 'The Humbling' 😩

πŸ’”πŸ˜© Just when I "THINK" that (leaning to my own understanding / Proverbs 3:5+6), God has, allowed and/or caused, me to be HUMBLED, as much as is possible, another "humbling - hammer and chisel," deservedly, "hammers down on," and, "chisels away at," me! πŸ”¨⚒😩...For example:  where I currently "find" myself (personally), on my life's journey, is quite uncomfortable, humbling, discouraging, etc., in one sense, nevertheless, "on the other hand," I maintain a constant realization that, I am extremely BLESSED, FAVORED, etc.!  The "humble pie" part of it, causes me to be somewhat frustrated, sometimes (if, I dwell on all of it very long))! πŸ€” Unreasonably high expectations (mine and other people's), pride, ego, and the such, also add to my "experience of humbling!" πŸ˜• My injured back, with the chronic pain, physical limitations, and all, is pretty tough for a person who WAS very active, able, etc.), and,...